The ACCIDENT

Monday, February 6th, I was working at Brady's parent's house for his dad.  Liz had picked me up and brought me to their house so that Brady could have the car.  Unfortunately he had already left for work on his motorcycle, so he was going to go home at lunch and pick up the car and drive to his parents for lunch since Kolton and I were going to be over there while I was working.  

At about 1:00 (when Brady typically has lunch) I was in the office with Brady's dad and Kolton was out on the driveway with Jaycee and Liz playing basketball.  Jeff got a phone call and sounded all concerned but I couldn't tell what was going on or who he was talking to so I just continued on working.  He got off the phone and as he was walking out of the office said "Your husband got in a wreck on his motorcycle.  He's ok but I have to go." I was like "WHAT?!" So I went after him and as I caught up he was in the driveway about to tell Brady's mom what happened.  He was driving on 19th street, about to turn on to Sante Fe, when he decided to look in his mirrors.  He felt like the car behind him was really close to him so he just wanted to look.  While he was looking in his mirror, the truck in front of him had slowed down to turn in to Walgreens, and so when he looked up he slammed on his brakes which made his front wheel lock up and his bike slide out from underneath him.  He hit the ground going about 35 mph.  He landed on his left side and slid about 10-15 feet he thinks.  He says the first thing he thought was "crap! I just got in a motorcycle accident.  I'm in the middle of the road.  I need to move." so he got up and crawled to the curb.  After a second or two he realized his motorcycle was still on so he got up and turned it off real quick and then sat back down.  The lady behind him had stopped in the road and put her hazards on so that no one would come in that lane and the guy in front of him in the truck had seen it happen and so he came over too.  A couple more people stopped, including an off duty cop.  He told Brady he had called 911 for him.  Everyone there was really nice and took care of him.  When the ambulance and fire trucks got there they checked him out and then left when Brady convinced them he'd be ok.  People started asking if Brady needed a wrecker service and that's when he thought he should call his dad to come get his motorcycle.  Because of the adrenaline he hadn't even thought about calling anyone, so he then called his dad.  At first I was a little upset he hadn't called me first...I mean, I am his wife, and it totally freaked me out not being able to talk to him and make sure he was ok, but after hearing the story I understood why it happened the way it did.  I totally should have gone with his dad, and to this day I still don't know why I didn't, but his dad left and met Robby at the warehouse to get the trailer and go get the motorcycle.  They were gone for forever! When they finally got back, the adrenaline had started to slow down and the reality of it all had hit Brady.  I took him in to the bathroom and took off all his clothes so they wouldn't stick to his wounds and cleaned them all out.  His pants were all torn up and ripped open.  He had some pretty bad cuts on his knees and his wrist.  His left knee had been rubbed almost down to the bone, while the right one wasn't as deep. 

  

 Brady was pretty sure he broke his finger (it was getting more and more swollen and was crooked and turning purple).  We got a hold of President Bean and asked if he would be willing to x-ray his finger. 

 Sure enough it was broken straight through and his knuckle was dislocated.  President Bean called an orthopedist that he knew, Dr. Ewing, and got us an appointment for the next morning at 10:00.  Brady's shoulder was also hurting really bad but President Bean told us to just wait until we went to go see Dr. Ewing the next morning instead of going to the E.R.  He told us that the E.R. would just tell us to go see an orthopedist if something was wrong, anyway, so since we already had an appointment we might as well just wait and save that money.  

We went to the doctor the next morning and Brady's parents watched Kolton.  They looked at his finger x-ray and also did an x-ray on his shoulder.  They determined that he was going to need surgery on his finger to place pins in it and reset the knuckle.  They also told us that he had torn/sprained his AC joint in his shoulder and it had moved out of place by 50%.  He also hit a "trigger point" when he hit the ground when he fell off his motorcycle.  His shoulder did not require surgery but it would take 4-6 months to heal.  Most of the severe pain and most of the healing should take place in the first 4-6 weeks, but will remain painful and continue to heal for up to 6 months.  They gave him a couple of shots in his shoulder to numb the pain to allow the muscle in his shoulder to relax to help the "trigger point." Usually treatment for the shoulder includes those shots as well as steroids but since he hurt his finger as well they can't give him steroids because that will slow down the healing in his finger.  Anyway, we left with a surgery scheduled for the next morning. 

 

 

Here's some pictures of his bike and helmet and stuff.  Part of his helmet broke off and then it got scratched up.  I'm so glad he was wearing his helmet because he hit his head hard and then slid.  If he didn't have his helmet on, his face would have been all cut up and he would probably have some sort of brain damage.  He told me that evening that he was thinking about asking me in the next couple of days if he could stop wearing his helmet because it was really annoying and would mess up his hair when he'd come home for lunch and since we live so close he thought he'd be fine without it.  I'm so glad he hadn't done that (even though I'm pretty sure I would have said no! :)). 

 His light broke off and the left side of his bike is cracked in a few places and scratched all over.  

 This is the left peg with the gear changer (not sure what it is called).  It totally just snapped off.  

 This is where it should be...

 The surgery was scheduled at The Surgical Hospital of Oklahoma in Oklahoma City.  We were supposed to be there at 8:30 and his surgery was scheduled for 10:00.  Brittney watched Kolton for us while we were at the hospital.  We were in the waiting room for about an hour I'd say and then he was called back to get all dressed and I stayed in the waiting room.  They called me back after he was dressed and had his IV.  We talked to the anesthesiologist and Dr. Ewing and his P.A.-Amber.  He went in to surgery at 11:30.  I got called back at 12:45 to see him when he was done.  They did a block on his arm so he didn't feel the pain but he was awake for it all.  He watched them put the pins in on the x-ray machine that they had going constantly to check as they went along. 

They put him in a soft cast and sent us on our way.  He was numb for about 24 hours so that was nice.  Typically you are only numb for about 3-4 hours with what they did to him but the effects were long lasting for him. He was worried at first--like maybe he had some nerve damage or something, but he called the doctor and they said he should be ok.  His pain returned, though, the next day.  We wrapped and re-wrapped the wrap on this, I don't even know how many times.  It was so uncomfortable for him.  The hard cast that was going down his arm was rubbing the bone in his wrist raw and was causing him a lot of pain.  We tried so many things to try and make it better with no luck.  I felt so bad for him. 

He stayed home from work through Thursday and then went back on Friday.  Come Friday night when he got home he was in a lot of pain.  His shoulder was more uncomfortable because he wasn't able to rest it and his finger was super swollen because he wasn't able to keep it above his heart.  I called the doctor's office on the following Tuesday, I believe, and Amber, the physician's assistant, told me that they were going to put a splint on him at his follow-up appointment on Thursday.  Brady was so excited! He couldn't wait.  

His follow-up appointment was Thursday morning at 7:30.  They took his soft cast off and cleaned around the pins.  He has one that is sticking out of his finger with a hook on it.  That is the one that is holding his knuckle in place.  He then has three that go across his finger to hold the break in place.  The one with the hook on it will come out in 3 weeks (on March 8th).  The other three will come out in 7 weeks.  We are hoping they don't have to do surgery on those.  If the pins start to stick out than they can just pull them out in the office.  If they don't stick out, though, than they will have to do surgery, so we are praying they make their way out.  

 

After they cleaned it and stuff they started to make his "splint."  We totally thought it was going to be just a finger splint and the rest of his hand and arm would be free.  Unfortunately, it is pretty much just like what he had before except it doesn't cover his whole hand.  They cut out part of the "splint" to allow his ring and pinkie finger to be free but it still covers his hand and goes up his arm.  It isn't as wrapped up, but totally not the "splint" I was envisioning. 

 

Kolton and I feel so bad for Brady and that he has to deal with this pain.  He was so lucky, though.  As uncomfortable as he is, it could have been SO much worse.  I am so glad that he came away from it with just a hurt shoulder, broken finger, and cuts and bruises.  I'm so glad he was wearing his helmet and gloves and long pants and long-sleeved shirt.  I'm glad he came away walking.  Everyone that asks him what happened to his hand then tells him a story of someone they know that either died in a motorcycle wreck or spent months in ICU because of a motorcycle wreck.  I'm so glad that nothing like that happened to him and we are able to have him here in our home with us.  I'm grateful for all the support we've received from my parents, Brady's parents, Jaycee, the Foys and everyone else.  Many people have offered help and kind words and we are grateful.  I love Brady so much and am so glad he is ok and can't wait for him to not be in pain anymore!

Enjoying LIFE

I know I say this all the time, but I can't believe how long it has been since I last blogged! Its so hard to find time lately to sit down and do it.  Its sad, really.  I need to be better! We love looking back at our blog books and remembering all the fun times we've had.  If I don't blog--we can't do that! :) Sometimes life just gets away from you.  It should be easy for me right now.  I have a 4 year old who never gets in to trouble and lets me do whatever I need to do all day but I always find something else to do...Clean, work for either Tinker or Brady's dad, talk on the phone, work on my church lessons, cook...you know...just everything!

I have a lot of just completely random pictures so I'm just going to put them all in here! 

 Kolton has gotten really good at doing puzzles.  Really, thanks to Kade! He only has two puzzles (one huge one...from Kade, and one small spiderman one) but when he goes to the Foys, he and Kade will play with their puzzles a lot and Kolton has really gotten a lot better at doing them! 

 I try to have something for Kolton do that is different from just playing toys almost every day.  I don't always succeed, but I really do try.  Especially when Kade and Emery come over I try and make sure and have something planned.  Whether its a game or craft or whatever...just something.  Anyway, one time I went through a few magazines that I get that I never read (I sign up for random magazines whenever they are available for free...like I get the magazine "Ebony" monthly...and I NEVER read it!).  I cut out a bunch of stuff and labeled some papers for the kids and they each had to find red things, blue things, boys, girls and things and glue them on the appropriate papers.  They loved it! They'd get so excited when they would pick something up and correctly categorize it.  It was fun!

 

I babysat Pierson and Rigdon one day while Vanessa went up to the dental school.  Pierson brought me this paper covered in Star Wars stickers.  Vanessa said Pierson said that I would like it better than Kolton so he wanted to give it to me.  :)

 

My dad came in to town on the 6th of February for the week to do some work up at Tinker.  He was able to come see us on Tuesday and Thursday.  Kolton was SO extremely excited to see him! We met at Chili's for dinner on Tuesday.  Kolton was super cuddly with him.  :)

 He came over to our house after dinner and Kolton got to ride in his car with him.  :) They were the best of buds while he was over.  Kolton was super sad to see him go that night. 

 He came over on Thursday night as well and we ate dinner and dessert.  We always have a pie every time he comes over so we got one of those as to not break tradition.  :) Kolton showed Grandpa how good he is at playing the Kinect and said he'd teach Grandpa how to play his Kinect when we go out there the end of this month. 

 On Friday of that same week, Kolton and I made some cool pictures.  He wanted to learn how to use tape so thats how it all started.  The first one we did is the one that says "KOLTON" in white letters and has a bunch of shapes taped on it.  He liked feeling all big using the tape dispenser.  :) Then we made one for Daddy so he could feel better on his first day back to work (get to that story in the next post).  Then we made one for Kolton to keep for himself.  During the one for Brady he decided he wanted to use glue instead of tape---it was easier to glue on small things rather than tape them. 

 This is the last one we made.  Here he is hitting a baseball so high that it goes up to the birds.  He wanted to make it look like our front yard. 

 There's our house and a tree and sun and bird.  There is also our mustang parked in front of the house. 

 He also wanted a basketball goal and basketball.  He needed a truck too, like Daddy's picture.  We had a lot of fun making it all. 

 Brittney made some signs for the kids to take pictures with for Valentine's day for their dads, and so when it was time for Shawn's birthday I decided to do the same thing.  So, Kolton and I colored pictures that said "HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHAWN" on them and took pictures with them.  He drew a Book of Mormon, a bike, a picture of Shawn, a sun, a present with a tie in it, balloons, and a puppet with Shawn watching the puppet.  They were good pictures! :)

 Quick story...we were at the mall one evening and Kolton was playing in the play area.  (This happened a month or so ago but I can't find it written in the blog anywhere so I'm doing it now.) We pointed out to Kolton that once he gets taller than the guy's hand outside of the play area that he can't play in there anymore because that is the rule (even though NO ONE follows that rule...I want him to follow rules and know its important to).  He replied with: "When I get as old as that sign can I get a phone?" Brady and I were like "WHAT?! Already asking for a phone?!" I asked him what he'd do with a phone.  He said: "What you guys do...people will call me...text...check my email...you know." It was cute and we had a good laugh. 

Air Kolton

Kolton is a sports fanatic! He loves everything sports! Loves to play sports...loves to watch sports...just loves everything about them.  And he is a natural at it! Every sport he's tried he just gets.  Its impressive to me because I am NOT that way.  He must get it from his dad.  We really should have signed him up for winter basketball...He would have loved it! We signed him up for spring soccer, which he's really excited for! It starts while we are in Utah, but he'll only miss one game. And then I think we are going to put him in summer basketball to see how he likes it.  He recently has become obsessed with the Thunder.  Its been great having the condensed season this year because theres a game on about every other night.  He has learned how to keep the score now too, so we get score updates nearly every time someone scores.  Its funny.  He's also working on learning the players.  He's got Kevin Durant down and knows he is number 35.  He also knows Westbrook is 0, Perkins is 5, and then he knows who Harden and Ibaka are but can't remember their numbers.  He likes to say "Ibaka is the BLOCKA!" The other night we had a basketball "party" with yummy game food and watched basketball as a family.  It was fun! 

Here's a bunch of pictures of Kolton playing basketball in the front yard.   

 

 I like this picture because he totally does this when he shoots.  He'll move his body as he watches the ball "willing" it to go in the hoop. 

 He wanted a picture of our shadows.  He thought it was cool they were so big. 

He likes to do this lately.  He was watching Mulan the other night and he came running over to Brady and said he had a secret to tell him.  He whispered in his ear "Mushu said "I'm going to kick your butt." Butt! He said butt!" and then giggled and giggled.  He is such a little boy.  

Kolton had to get his 4 year old shots a couple of weeks ago. I took him to the health department since they are free there.  I wasn't sure how many he needed but knew he needed a couple.  Brady and I talked to him beforehand about how they'll hurt a little bit but then they'll be over and won't hurt anymore.  Brady talked to him about the importance of him staying still while the nurse is giving him the shot so she can do it faster and easier.  He was a little nervous but decided to be brave.  When we got back in the room he started getting a little more antsy but wanted to sit on the chair by himself and be big and brave instead of sitting on my lap.  So, I sat down on a chair next to him.  He needed 3 shots.  When she did the first one it freaked him out.  This was also the first time he's received shots in his arm.  Every other time he's been young enough to do them in his legs.  He held really still but did not like it! I felt so bad.  He is just at an age where he understood what was going on but not old enough to control his emotions and really know that it would be over soon. I hated seeing him have to sit there through three of them.  For the third one he decided to sit on my lap so I could hold him.  After we were done with them I took him to Brady's work so he could get some stickers and suckers and then to Braum's for an ice cream shake and then we went and signed him up for soccer.  Luckily he now doesn't need any shots until 2018, so that's good! 

Its been unseasonably warm this winter.  Makes me a little nervous for this summer but we've been enjoying the weather for now.  However, the night of the 11th it actually snowed.  We got maybe a quarter of an inch :) at about 9:00 at night but Kolton was still up so he got on his winter gear and headed out to play.  He would go and scrape snow off of Brady's car and then throw it at the house.  He had fun! Playing in the snow is always a blast when you are a little kid! 

Kolton is becoming more and more inquisitive about the gospel.  We were reading from the scriptures one night and when we finished reading he asked us to explain to him what we just read.  I paraphrased it in plain English for him.  He then said "Mom, tell me about Jesus." It was sweet.  So, Brady and I told him about Jesus and our Heavenly Father and how much they love us and what Jesus was like while he was on the Earth and that he'll be coming again soon.  We talked for about 15 minutes and he just soaked it all in.  It was a sweet moment.  I've loved his prayers lately too.  He always, always says "Please bless Heavently Father and Jesus that they can be happy and not sad." I'm not sure where he got that from exactly but he likes to say it in his prayers.  He also says "Thank thee for the gospel" and "thank thee we can be good examples" (he says "thank thee" for almost everything in his prayer).  Last night he said "Thank thee I can go on a mission when I get older." He'll also sometimes say "thank thee (meaning "please bless") mom and dad can be happy and not cranky".   Haha.  That one makes me laugh.  Brady and I have been blessed with a very sweet and loving little boy! I have an amazing family and am so grateful for Brady, Lillian and Kolton!